Dallas Daughter Solves Mother's Senior Care Problems
Posted by Erin Wade on Tue, Jul 21, 2009 @ 04:58 PM
Cam Willis and her
eighty-two-year-old mother, Abbie, had planned a fun weekend road trip
together to Shreveport. When Cam arrived that morning to pick up her
mother for the drive, she immediately noticed her mother’s unusual
behavior. Abbie was disoriented, erratic, and unable to complete her
packing her luggage. Assuming that her mother was just having a bad
morning, Cam finished the task for her, and they headed out on the open
road.
Throughout the weekend trip, Cam observed Abbie’s disrupted sleeping
habits, disorientation, and lethargy, and at that point Cam started
having warning bells go off in her head as this behavior seemed out of
sorts for her. When the weekend trip was coming to a close, and Cam
brought Abbie back home, the unthinkable happened: Abbie fell in her
bathroom, was immediately taken to the hospital by ambulance, and then
diagnosed with four fractured ribs. In addition, Cam was informed that
her mother would need rehab to rebuild her strength and was having the
beginnings of short term memory loss, which would only continue to
increase in the future. Although Abbie and Cam had begun to consider
the idea of a retirement home for Abbie, her mother’s fall and
additional prognosis accelerated the process significantly, and Cam
began making plans to relocate her mother that very day.
Challenge
“As an only child, I had no siblings or family in town, and I had
not married. While my mom was in the regular and then rehab hospitals,
I was still trying to work full time, checking in on my mom, collecting
mail from her apartment, investigating retirement centers, arranging
for her upcoming move, and still trying to run my own personal life.”
Cam explains “Basically, I was managing two lives by myself, and I
realized I needed help!”
Solution
At the recommendation of a nurse, Cam contacted HealthBridge, and that very morning, Matt Johnson and Courtney Layton, Vice President, HealthBridge,
came out to visit with them. In the midst of the confusing, changing
circumstances, Matt and Courtney took the time to completely understand
the situation and recommend a personalized solution to provide the best
care for Abbie while relieving Cam of immense stress.
Cam explained “I realized that the more nervous my mom was becoming
by her changing circumstances, the more I was reacting to these
changes. My mom wasn’t acting like my mom, and it really threw me.”
She continues “Initially, HealthBridge
proposed round the clock, twenty-four hour care of my mom, delivering
someone to assist my mom that first night. In addition, Courtney even
helped me navigate through the maze of healthcare insurance coverage, allowing me to better understand what was covered and what wasn’t.”
HealthBridge
continued to assist Cam with the day to day living and care for Abbie,
including helping her shower, dress and providing overall personal care
in addition to helping with meals, light housekeeping, and driving to
appointments. All the while, Cam was able to effectively and
efficiently coordinate and manage her mother’s move to a retirement
home, knowing her mother was in capable hands.
Three months later, Abbie’s doctor
recommended that Cam relocate her mother to an assisted living center
due to Abbie’s additional memory loss and need of more ongoing care.
Feeling the stress mounting, Cam recognized she had another move to
coordinate and implement on her mother’s behalf, and HealthBridge was there to help with Abbie’s care. Once Abbie settled in her new assisted living residence, Cam has continued to utilize HealthBridge more on a case by case basis for periodic morning grooming, errands, and transportation to and from doctors’ appointments.
Result
“Over the past six months, I have worked with numerous HealthBridge
personal care attendants in a variety of capacities and spoken with
Matt and Courtney countless times. They were extremely professional and
sensitive to our needs, have always been in the loop on my mother’s
care, and consistently went the extra mile” explains Cam.
Simply put, HealthBridge delivered personal relationships and peace of mind.
“I feel like they genuinely care for me and my family, and I have made some new great friends. It’s neat to know that HealthBridge
is there when I need them,” Cam expresses. “I’m not sure what the next
stage will be in regards to care for my mother, but I do know that I
can count on HealthBridge to walk with me, step by step.”
Written by Carolyn Cameron